{"id":10685,"date":"2012-01-23T09:55:39","date_gmt":"2012-01-23T15:55:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.momstoolbox.com\/blog\/?p=10685"},"modified":"2012-01-23T09:55:42","modified_gmt":"2012-01-23T15:55:42","slug":"recovering-laparoscopic-surgery","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.momstoolbox.com\/blog\/recovering-laparoscopic-surgery\/","title":{"rendered":"My experience with laparoscopic surgery"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.momstoolbox.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/23\/recovering-laparoscopic-surgery\/surgery\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-10686\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-10686\" title=\"surgery\" src=\"http:\/\/www.momstoolbox.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"499\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.momstoolbox.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery.jpg 499w, http:\/\/www.momstoolbox.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/surgery-224x300.jpg 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 499px) 100vw, 499px\" \/><\/a>That was my view last Wednesday as I was wheeled to pre-op before I spent 3 hours in surgery having 2 liters drained from a mystery cyst on my liver.<\/p>\n<p>I had my thank you note and tape and a box of doughnuts to share. And I had my brave face on.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll back up a bit&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Back in October I started having heartburn and reflux and intended to get it looked at, but trips and life kept getting in the way. In December I noticed my clothes were getting tight and called my husband into the closet one Friday night as I was getting ready to go out with him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you think I look pregnant?&#8221; I asked. I quickly explained that I knew I was not, but asked his opinion.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Umm, Amy,&#8221; He began, &#8220;I have thought that for a few days now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Poor guy! How can a sweet husband tell his wife she is looking a little pregnant without fear of repercussion!?<\/p>\n<p>We decided to go ahead and go out for the night and the next morning I called a doctor. She told me to call her again Monday morning as she would find an appropriate doctor to see me.<\/p>\n<p>That doctor ordered blood tests and an ultrasound and, after that, a CT Scan was ordered, as well.<\/p>\n<p>The radiologist told me I had a cyst on my liver that would need to be removed or drained. It being Christmastime, the suggested surgeon was on vacation so I sat and waited a week into January when I finally met the surgeon and scheduled surgery. In addition to being a liver surgeon, he was also a oncology surgeon, which I confess was a bit unsettling and reassuring at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>My husband and I were told it was most likely nothing to be worried about, but that after surgery the cyst would be sent to pathology.<\/p>\n<p>Before our meeting with the surgeon we didn&#8217;t share much about the surgery with many of our friends because, well, we really didn&#8217;t know what to share. Once the surgery date was set, we shared here and there, but didn&#8217;t tell too many people because we didn&#8217;t want to alarm anyone.<\/p>\n<p>Well, surgery happened last week and, as far as I can tell, it all went quite well.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure if I ever realized how serious the whole surgery thing was. I was so fixated on getting things done before surgery that I didn&#8217;t let myself dwell on that act of surgery much.<\/p>\n<p>When I was led to my room to change into a gown and have blood drawn and noticed the IV holder things in the ceiling, I started to think about what was to happen and the potential seriousness of it all. But I didn&#8217;t let myself go too far.<\/p>\n<p>We waited and waited and then I was wheeled to Pre-Op. There the surgeon asked me if I was ready, as did the anesthesiologist. I told them both that all I was going to do was lay there and that I hoped they were ready. I asked if they had seen my thank you note and asked they share it with others. One doctor taped it onto my chart.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I saw you on TV last night,&#8221; the surgeon said.<\/p>\n<p>Houston&#8217;s NBC affiliate aired a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.click2houston.com\/news\/Companies-pay-mom-bloggers-thousands\/-\/1735978\/8276608\/-\/e5916nz\/-\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">story on mom bloggers<\/a> the night before surgery. They aired a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.click2houston.com\/news\/How-to-make-money-with-mommy-blogs\/-\/1735978\/8270986\/-\/11w1ps8\/-\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\">follow up piece<\/a> with more information the next day, the morning of surgery.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They aired another story this morning,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Did you see that one?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was probably working,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>And then I realized even more how nervous I was. I told my husband that the surgeon must have thought I was so arrogant going on about being on TV, but that I had a lot of nervous energy.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s okay, Amy,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>Then the doctors came back and explained that I would have a breathing tube inserted once I was sedated. I was shaken to reality again. I just hadn&#8217;t thought that much about it. A breathing tube sounded serious.<\/p>\n<p>I distracted myself by wondering what stupid things I might say\u00a0 before I was asleep. Then a doctor who looked just like a guy I dated in college introduced himself to me. Then I really began to worry what I might say before I was asleep!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Where else do you want to go on vacation?&#8221; I asked my husband, hoping to think about that for awhile. I figured if I talked about that before being drugged, I might share silly vacation stories which couldn&#8217;t be too embarrassing.<\/p>\n<p>I remember them telling me it was time and I remember waving goodbye to my husband. Next I remember being amazed at how big the operating room was and commenting on all the equipment and lights. I wiggled from my bed onto the table and the next thing I knew I was in a different room and someone told me he was going to give me an X-Ray.<\/p>\n<p>I remember saying &#8220;Right here?! How cool is that?!&#8221; and then fell into a fog again.<\/p>\n<p>Then I remember there being some discussion as to why my main line was still in and the surgeon sounding a bit stern.<\/p>\n<p>I had no idea what they were talking about at the time, but have since found out it was a line in my vein on my neck. I have all sorts of holes there. I wonder if I look very Twilight. (I&#8217;ve never read the books or seen the movies.)<\/p>\n<p>I found out that the surgery had indeed been laparoscopic, as had been hoped, and all went well.<\/p>\n<p>I remember that the kind woman who tended to me in recovery listened to me babble on about something for awhile. I can&#8217;t remember what I was telling her, but I remember thinking that she was being so nice to just listen.<\/p>\n<p>After awhile they moved me to a regular hospital room and I announced my arrival in the wing by spitting up. I was not so proud of my first impression and also felt bad that that was the first thing my husband saw of me after recovery. Nice.<\/p>\n<p>I spent one night and the next day in the hospital and then came home.\u00a0 Rather than bring the kids to the hospital, I waited to see them at home. My boys were interested in seeing my incisions, my daughter opted not to look.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been recovering pretty well at home, but I&#8217;m ready to be myself again.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still a bit groggy and sore here and there and one of my arms has a dull pain that seems to move around from my wrist to my shoulder, but I am told that could just be the gas from the laparoscopy trying to escape. (I&#8217;d like for it to escape.)<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s about it for now. Just waiting to get better. And trying not to get frustrated about not getting much done.<\/p>\n<p>But being ever so thankful for a successful, event-free surgery and recovery.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That was my view last Wednesday as I was wheeled to pre-op before I spent 3 hours in surgery having 2 liters drained from a mystery cyst on my liver. I had my thank you note and tape and a box of doughnuts to share. And I had my brave face on. 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