Adjusting to new babies

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Last week I met a mom of two who is expecting her third child soon. (She blogs over at I Still Hate Pickles, and she just released an Ebook of Devotions for Lent, in case you were wondering or need a new devotional guide.)

Well, anyway, as it turned out, the timing of her three children very closely resembles that of my own… except I have a few years on her.

When she told me her children’s ages and her due date, I could not help but become one of those who shares pregnancy and mom experiences without asking first.

“Oh, I have to tell you…” I began. It came out of my mouth before I even realized it. I promise. And then I couldn’t stop.

“Going from two to three for me was CAKE compared to going to one, or even two. It was SO much better than I expected.” I told her.

I remembered all too well the frustration I felt in managing life as a mom with our first baby.  When our second was born, juggling two really got me. But, by the time our third baby was born, I managed much, much better than I had the first two times. And, in the event she was as worn out as I was the first two times, I wanted her to have hope. Because I could have used a touch of it at that point in my journey.

So I’m just wondering for those of you out there with two, three, eighteen or any number of children in between. (Or, well, above, too.) What was your most difficult transition? And which were your easiest? And if you are a mom of one, was transitioning into motherhood what you expected, easier or harder?

Please, if you have a moment, do share. I’m curious to know if other moms of three or more felt them same way I did. And I’m also curious as to what other moms thought of the whole transition into motherhood.

Thanks for sharing. :)


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3 responses to “Adjusting to new babies”

  1. Christa Dizon Avatar
    Christa Dizon

    Amy, I think you and I are cut from the same cord!! My experience was exactly the same as yours. Going from 0 children to 1 child rocked my world (meaning, it was really hard). Then when brought home my second child life became even harder to manage! But I was completely surprised when I brought home my third child that the transition seemed completely seemless!
    I am not sure if the ages of my children have something to do with my experience because the age differene between child 1 and child 2 is 2years 3 months. The age difference between child 2 and child 3 is 41/2 years. So my olders were out of diapers and quite independant by the time I brought the 3rd home and they were great little helpers!! I was so pleasantly surprised!!!!
    Hugs,
    Christa

  2. Christina Avatar
    Christina

    Hi,
    I’ve had 5 children in 7 years and my hardest transition was going from 1 to children. My easiest transition was going from 3 children to 4. Two is company, three’s a crowd and anything beyond three is still a crowd. I’ve heard other moms say that going from 2 to 3 is hardest though. Those are my thoughts.
    Blessings,
    Christina

    1. Christina Avatar
      Christina

      Sorry, to edit from my comment, going from 1 to 2 children was the hardest for me.

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